Valentine Dating Tips For GIRLS 

It's a myth that guys look at beauty alone. Sure, a pretty face might get you through the front door, but that's about all, really. Guys look for someone to relate to, someone they can pour their hearts out to. Guys want someone they feel at ease talking to, because 50 years down the road, when you're both old and gray and even reaching for that bottle of Viagra seems a chore, conversation is all you have left.

Flirting With Intelligence

Compliment the boy you are interested in. Don´t be afraid to tell him you like his jacket, or his thick eyebrows, maybe even the way he writes. Notice something that other girls won´t. Bring out his intelligence because chances are - they won´t. They´ll be too busy looking at his handsome face and body.

Be Yourself

Always be honest with people because nobody likes a "put-on" or phoney. Be yourself around boys and don´t try to impress them with your looks, wealth, or intelligence. Don´t think that you are better than all the other girls are because you happen to think you look better than they do or your parents just bought you a fancy car. The guy you are trying to impress might prefer the least attractive girl just because she is honest and down to Earth.

Is it OK for girls to be smart?

The world is changing. It is not only OK for girls to be smart and self-sufficient, it is desirable.
A couple of generations ago boys were intimidated by intelligent girls with good grades. Today, girls are expected to do their best. Girls will grow up to support themselves, and sometimes their entire families with their earnings. Almost all households are two-earner households now. Women must acquire as much education as they can to pull their own weight in this modern world.

How To Tell If He Likes You

These are some of the more subtle clues - keep your eyes open - you may have more guys flirting with you than you realize!!!

   He remembers little things you mention in casual conversation.
It may take you by surprise. You might have been talking when he was around and two weeks later he'll say, "Well, you like orange fizz..."

   His voice changes when he talks to you in a group. He may say "Hey." to everyone with you, but the "Hey." to you is a little different.

   His voice gets softer when the two of you talk.

   Sometimes he stares straight into your eyes.

   His eyes get 'soft' when he looks at you. They change slightly or get relaxed around the edges. It's subtle, but you can tell if you watch...
(You may already be aware of it at a subconscious level - that's what made you start wondering if he likes you...)

   When he's near you or talking with you, his eyes travel in a little circle around your face and land back on your eyes. (Like he's looking at your whole face - then back to your eyes.)

   He watches your lips. (Dead give away.)

   His friends start asking you questions - if you haven't met him yet - they may ask what your name is. Or may ask you what you think about 'him.'

   If his friends are paying attention to you after he's been staring at you - it can mean that he's been talking about you.

  He tells you that you smell nice...
(No hidden meaning here - it's a good thing.)

  He might act weird around you or seem very nervous. His behavior may just plain change when you're around.
If he's normally quiet, he may get louder, or vice versa. It's the difference in behavior that's the clue.